If you’re a foreign guy living in Taiwan or China, chances are you’ve done it: internet dating as “language exchange.” For many of you its your primary means of meeting women. All of them were Taiwanese and their ages ranged from 19 to 44. I’m currently with a nice woman from Thailand I met on here. Still, considering that I’ve recently started a new job and have low hours, the internet is my cheapest and most convenient female-seeking resource right now.
In the period of less than a year I’ve taken four girls from the internet into my bed. The untrained guy will face more frustration than I have.
While it may help in finding English-speaking girls interested in us Western guys, I’ve found that Taiwanese social norms make it tough to pull quality Taiwanese girls off the net and into bed. And thanks to a couple trends over the last few years, IT’S ACTUALLY GETTING WORSE!
If you’re a guy coming here to Taiwan and want to have a fun sex life, relying only on the internet will likely be a frustrating experience.
You’ll need to find other avenues like getting a hobby, talking to attractive girls and even doing the club scene a little bit.
Here are some of the things that make internet dating frustrating, particularly in Taiwan. I always knew there were more guys than girls on most avenues of internet dating, but when I actually looked at some of the numbers I was shocked! While some of the smaller sites that disclose profile numbers are more equal, such as Tealit and Badoo, I can assure you that the volume of messages is NOT.
Anyone who is open-minded and honest will see what I am talking about. The two on the bottom are both hotties, but one is Indonesian.